The
History of Marriage as an Institutionby Larry R. Peterson, Ph.D.© 1997, Larry R. Peterson
Virtually all scholars agree that we have
witnessed a major transition in the meaning of marriage in the years
from 1600 to 1995. In 1600, marriage for almost all Europeans and
Europeans in America was primarily an economic arrangement
negotiated between families in which family considerations of
status, future economic stability, and prosperity were the most
important considerations in selecting a potential spouse. By 1995,
most Americans consider the primary purpose of marriage to be a
commitment to emotional and psychological support between two
individuals.
Here are hisorical notations about some of the dramatic changes
in the legal structure of marriage in Western Europe and the United
States.
- From the 5th to the 14th centuries, the Roman Catholic Church
conducted special ceremonies to bless same-sex unions which were
almost identical for those to bless heterosexual unions. At the
very least, these were spiritual, if not sexual, unions.
- In 1076, Pope Alexander II issued a decree prohibiting
marriages between couples who were more closely related than 6th
cousins.
- In the 16th century, servants and day laborers were not
allowed to marry in Bavaria and Austria unless they had the
permission of local political authorities. This law was not
finally abolished in Austria until 1921.
- From the 1690s to the 1870s, “wife sale” was common in rural
and small-town England. To divorce his wife, a husband could
present her with a rope around her neck in a public sale to
another man.
- Marriage was strictly a civil and not an ecclesiastical
ceremony for the Puritans in Massachusetts Bay until 1686.
- The Pilgrims outlawed courtship of a daughter or a female
servant unless consent was first obtained from parents or master.
- Until 1662, there was no penalty for interracial marriages in
any of the British colonies in North America. In 1662, Virginia
doubled the fine for fornication between interracial couples. In
1664, Maryland became the first colony to ban interracial
marriages. By 1750, all southern colonies, plus Massachusetts and
Pennsylvania outlawed interracial marriages.
- Under English common law, and in all American colonies and
states until the middle of the 19th century, married women had no
legal standing. They could not own property, sign contracts, or
legally control any wages they might earn.
- In 1848, New York became the first state to pass a Married
Woman’s Property Act, guaranteeing the right of married women to
own property.
- Throughout most of the 19th century, the minimum age of
consent for sexual intercourse in most American states was 10
years. In Delaware it was only 7 years.
- As late as 1930, twelve states allowed boys as young as 14 and
girls as young as 12 to marry (with parental consent).
- As late as 1940, married women were not allowed to make a
legal contract in twelve states.
- In 1967, the U.S. Supreme Court struck down state
anti-miscegenation laws in Loving v. Virginia.
As a result of the decision, Virginia and fifteen other states
had their anti-miscegenation laws declared unconstitutional. Those
states were: Alabama, Arkansas, Delaware, Florida, Georgia,
Kentucky, Louisiana, Mississippi, Missouri, North Carolina,
Oklahoma, South Carolina, Tennessee, Texas, and West Virginia.
In the fifteen years prior to the decision, fourteen states had
repealed their anti-miscegenation laws. Those fourteen states
were: Arizona, California, Colorado, Idaho, Indiana, Maryland,
Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, North Dakota, Oregon, South Dakota,
Utah, and Wyoming.
- In 1978, New York became the first state to outlaw rape in
marriage. By 1990, only a total of ten states outlawed rape in
marriage. In thirty-six states rape in marriage was a crime only
in certain circumstances. In four states, rape in marriage was
never a crime.
These examples, and there are more, clearly
document that marriage has not been an unchanging institution with
unchanging definitions of who can marry and under what
circumstances. Those who claim otherwise distort the historical
record.
Footnotes
For the opening
paragraphs: Edward Shorter, The Making of the Modern
Family, (New York: Basic Books, 1975); Carl N. Degler, At Odds:
Women and the Family in America from the Revolution to the
Present, (New York: Oxford University Press, 1980); Michael
Mitterauer and Reinhard Sieder, The European Family: Patriarchy to
Partnership from the Middle Ages to the Present (Chicago:
University of Chicago Press, 1982); Steven Mintz and Susan
Kellogg, Domestic Revolutions: A Social History of American Family
Life, (New York: MacMillan, 1988); John D’Emilio and Estelle B.
Freedman, Intimate Matters: A History of Sexuality in America,
(New York: Harper & Row, 1988).
- John Boswell, Same-Sex Unions in Premodern
Europe, (New York: Villard Books, 1994).
- Jack Goody, The Development of the Family and
Marriage in Europe, (New York: Cambridge University Press, 1983)
pp. 136-138.
- Mitterauer and Sieder, p. 123.
- John R. Gillis, For Better, For Worse: British
Marriages, 1600 to the Present, (New York: Oxford University
Press, 1985) pp. 211-217.
- Edmund S. Morgan, The Puritan Family: Religion
and Domestic Relations in Seventeenth Century New England. rev.
ed. (New York: Harper & Row, 1966) p. 32.
- John Demos, A Little Commonwealth: Family Life in
Plymouth Colony, (New York: Oxford University Press, 1970) p.
154.
- D’Emilio and Freedman, pp. 34-36.
- Sara M. Evans, Born for Liberty: A History of
Women in America, (New York: Free Press, 1989), p. 22.
- Evans, p. 94.
- Morton Keller, Affairs of State: Public Life in
Late Nineteenth Century America. (Cambridge, MA.: Belknap Press of
Harvard University Press, 1977), p. 465.
- Mintz and Kellogg, p. 126.
- Degler, p. 333.
- Loving v. Virginia, 388 US 1, 18 L ed 2d,
United States Supreme Court Reports, October Term, 1966, Lawyers’
Edition, Second Series, Volume 18 (Rochester, N.Y.: Lawyers
Cooperative Publishing Company, 1968) p.1014n.
- Jane Sherron De Hart and Linda K. Kerber, “Gender
and The New Women’s History,” in Linda K. Kerber and Jane Sherron
De Hart, eds. Women’s America: Refocusing the Past, 4th ed. (New
York: Oxford University Press, 1995) p. 13.
Article © 1997, Larry R. Peterson, Ph.D. Larry
R. Peterson is a full professor, chairs the Dept. of History and may
be reached at: Minard Hall 412J, Box 5075, North Dakota State
University, Fargo, North Dakota 58105-5075 701-231-8824; fax
701-231-1047; lpeterso@plains.nodak.edu
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